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“Sole custody” refers to a situation where one parent has primary care and control of the child. Legally, the term is no longer used—courts now issue Child Arrangements Orders, which can specify that a child “lives with” one parent.

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<li><strong>Attempt Agreement</strong>: Try to agree arrangements with the other parent, possibly through mediation.</li>
<li><strong>Attend a MIAM</strong>: A Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting is typically required before applying to court.</li>
<li><strong>File Court Forms</strong>: If no agreement is reached or there are serious concerns (e.g., abuse), submit a C100 form to the family court (plus a C1A form if alleging harm).</li>
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<li><strong>First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA)</strong>: The court identifies key issues and encourages an agreement.</li>
<li><strong>Additional Hearings</strong>: Often called Dispute Resolution Appointments. If no agreement is found, further evidence may be heard.</li>
<li><strong>Final Hearing</strong>: A judge decides what arrangements serve the child’s best interests, often referring to the Welfare Checklist.</li>
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You must show that it is in the child’s best interests to live with you. Common grounds include:
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<li>A history of abuse, neglect, or substance misuse by the other parent</li>
<li>Inability or unwillingness of the other parent to provide a stable environment</li>
<li>Evidence that shared care would not be in the child’s welfare</li>
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The family court uses the <strong>Welfare Checklist</strong> under the Children Act 1989, which considers:
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<li>The child’s wishes and feelings (depending on age and understanding)</li>
<li>Their physical, emotional, and educational needs</li>
<li>The likely effect of any changes in circumstances</li>
<li>Their age, sex, background, and relevant characteristics</li>
<li>Any risk of harm</li>
<li>Each parent’s ability to meet the child’s needs</li>
<li>Whether making an order is better than making no order at all</li>
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Not necessarily. In most cases, the non-custodial parent keeps <strong>parental responsibility</strong>, which includes the right to be informed about major decisions. They may still have contact arrangements outlined in the court order, unless there are serious safeguarding concerns.

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Yes—unless a court has specifically restricted or prevented contact due to safety reasons. Typically, a Child Arrangements Order will include provisions for the non-resident parent to maintain a relationship with the child, such as supervised visits or indirect communication.

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<li><strong>Court fee</strong>: £255 to submit your application for a Child Arrangements Order.</li>
<li><strong>Legal fees</strong>: Vary depending on complexity, whether a solicitor is hired, and if disputes are lengthy.</li>
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If you’re not the child’s mother, you may seek parental responsibility by showing a connection to the child (e.g., father, step-parent). Multiple people can share parental responsibility. However, the court will again focus on the best interests of the child.

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Our family law specialists have in-depth knowledge of child custody proceedings. We guide you through mediation attempts, court processes, and all legal documentation—ensuring your child’s welfare remains the top priority.

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<strong>Need More Information?</strong>
<strong>HM &amp; Co. Solicitors</strong>
186 Lower Road, Surrey Quays
London SE16 2UN

<strong>Telephone</strong>: 02071128180
<strong>Email</strong>: <a rel="noopener">info@hmsolicitorsltd.com</a>

By working with an experienced legal team, you’ll have clarity and reassurance throughout the entire process of seeking sole custody.